Ha, ha: Blooey can really come up with the nicest-yet-deepest things. Must be all of those people who taught her at Ateneo; I’ve always admired Bloo’s set of Mentors, who are some of the best and (coolest!) professors of our school. We’re not just talking about those who were her in-class teachers, but also those profs she had a friendship with (and, yes, that is very much possible and common in the Ateneo, to forge lasting friendships with our professors, even if they’re not your in-class teacher or they gave you a grade below B).
One of those is the legendary Eddie Boy Calasanz, philo prof and heir apparent to Fr. Roque “Padre” Ferriols. Both professors always, always, have long waiting lists of students wanting to get into their classes, and this is considering they’re not known for giving really high grades, especially the good Padre. Prof. Calasanz is the only person ever to get an A+ from Padre Ferriols.
Bloo posted an article in her blog Prof. Calasanz wrote on Marriage. I read it through and found myself smiling. What was written was, technically, nothing new to the Atenean: one of the core concepts in Jesuit theology is the Paradox of Commitment. The Jesuits and their theologians at the Ateneo teach us Blue Eagles that, contrary to popular belief, commitment sets you free. Because, at its simplest, commitment gives one a solid foundation for Action and decision. No more is the future a confusing and ambigious mishmash of possiblities because you now have a point of reference to choose which possiblity to take. You are better able to plan your future within the context of your commitment.
Prof. Calasanz’ discussion on the issue of Marriage, or what makes a good one and why it doesn’t seem to go right many times is truly quite intriguing. Check it out in the link above (or post a comment if it refuses to link and I’ll try to post it here), and let’s see what you think about it.
Which reminds me about a little incident today. Urban Bank called to verify my intent to apply for the Ateneo Alumni Association Visa card. The caller asked, as is expected for a confirmation profile, if I was single or married. I nearly answered, “wish ko lang married na ko…” (“,)
La lang. Just an aside. Actually, I just wanted to share that post Blooey made.